Let your word be law. Be cautious of what you agree to commit too. If you say you will do something, then do it. If you are not 100% certain, say nothing at all. This is the practice of a powerful person. If you are uncertain about a decision and you waffle and wave backwards and forward you put forth a "staccato" vibration into the universe. The Universal Law does not know how to respond so you get haze and confusion in return. But if you let your yes's be yes and your no's be no, then you are communicating controlled strength. You will receive controlled strength in return.